It’s 9:52 p.m. and this is the first real free moment I’ve had all day.
I reach this point in the day and my head spins in 17 directions…Do I finish the book I’m supposed to write a blog review on? Do I read the book I’m reading for an impromptu reading group…Unglued by Lysa Terkeurst (an incredible book by the way!)? Do I work on a personal essay I’ve been thinking about? Write a thoughtful blog post about the bazillion things I have to be thankful for? Download pictures from my phone and organize them on my computer? Clean my completely disorganized office that I avoid spending time in because it’s so disorganized?
Or…write a random blog post about how I don’t know how to focus and make decisions any longer, especially at 10 p.m at night.
Obviously I opted for the later.
When my girls stopped napping I lost any semblance of daily personal blogging and writing time…it was a luxury I suppose. Now I’m forced to find time in the “cracks” or “margins” as I’ve heard fellow friends and mothers describe their “free” moments.
Sadly, I’m not very good at that…utilizing cracks and thin margins to be efficient.
Sigh…What’s a mom to two small children with one more on the way to do?!
A) Join a writer’s group (or start one like we did!) and attend it even with your oldest child in tow and even if you have to spend 10 minutes with her in the bathroom of the coffee house talking about how she hasn’t “gone” all day and “patiently” responding to her pleadings to just wait “right outside of the stall door so that she doesn’t have to flush the toilet by herself because it might make a really loud noise.”
Haha…nothing will get your literary juices flowing like good potty talk!
All joking aside, I’m thankful for the women in my writing group. Their persistence to keep writing and journaling and blogging in the midst of their busy lives inspires persistence in my life. Thank you!
(For the record, this is a true story from tonight!)
B) Get to know other writers who are “in the trenches” so to speak, and yet still somehow finding time to reach their goals. Writing mommas like Joceyln Green, the super nice gal I met at the Breathe Writers Conference in Michigan this past weekend. I SWEAR she wrote this post just for me today…“10 Tips for Time Starved Writers” . Thanks for the great post Jocelyn!
One of the things I’ve been thinking about most is that if I want to find consistent time to write and blog that I need to get up earlier…it seems to be the only way. Guess what? One momma from my writing group (you go Kelly Baesen) just told me tonight how she has been getting up at 5 a.m. to write and then Jocelyn also mentions it in her post about finding time to write.
No more pregnancy, ‘I’m too tired’ excuses…it may be time to set an alarm clock instead of depending on my terribly lazy circadian rhythm to wake me in the morning.
C) Sigh loudly and tell your husband that you cannot concentrate on your lame, unfocused blog post because he is talking loudly on the phone…only to find out that he is talking to your mother and thanking her for the sweet anniversary card and gift certificate that she gave you earlier that day.
So, I’m feeling like A and B may be moving me in the right direction…C…not so much…Sorry babe.
I’d love to hear your suggestions for fitting “it” in…whatever the “it” is in your lives…reading, writing, knitting, canning, painting, singing, volunteering…what is important to you and how do you find time to do it consistently?